Care For A Walk?

Sometimes, I spend a lot of time thinking through topics and phrasing, trying to write the post that someone else would want to read. It's never worked out too well. Honestly, I can't be writing on here trying to keep everyone happy with what I write. If this blog is going to serve any effective purpose long-term, it needs to match two criteria:

1. It must be pleasing to God.
2. I must be satisfied with having my name on it.

So really, writing here should be the same as everything else I do - filling those two requirements should be the baseline for every word, action, and thought that I have. Anything less than that is nothing more than worthless dirt. When I'm gone, I can't take anything I do with me, and all I can leave behind long-term is a legacy.

This is the foundation from here on out of what is written, said, and done. I'm sorry if you don't like this, but as much as having the readers is nice and necessary, I'm not writing for you. I write for me, and I live for God. A lot of who I am is reflected on this blog. I can't go at this or anything else with the mindset of being a people-pleaser. I know from experience that living that way causes nothing but trouble.

So for now, this is me. I'm journeying to figure out what that means. I leave you with this open invitation - will you join me for this walk?

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